Online ANR ABF Communities and Where to Look for Potential Partners

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Here are sites, apps, and suggestions for places to find ANR/ABF online communities where you can connect with others. Some may have personals that you can post classified ads for your location.

Note: If you're looking for a partner and there's not anyone near you, create a post or a group! You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Good luck!

If you don't see your area listed, create a group, let us know at contact AT, and we'll list it here. You can also use our Kik rules picture templates. We also highly recommend using the Rage Admin Bot in your Kik groups.

NOTE: Telegram groups do not have (as many) spam bots as Kik public groups do; Kik public group rules are far more stringent than on Telegram.

It also would not hurt to put up flyers in your area.

Instant Messaging Platforms

Telegram Groups

(Requires Telegram app to sign up. It uses your mobile number to do SMS verification (no spammer robots, please). Afterwards you can put in whatever username you want. Your number isn't shared with anyone. It also has a web browser version.)

For iOS devices, you will have to enable showing sensitive content in some groups. Go to the web browser version) and login. Touch the hamburger menu button, and then touch Settings. Enable “show sensitive content” and then close and re-open the Telegram app. A YouTube Tutorial is also available.     - Discussion Group for ANR/ABF/NBE   - This is an educational support group for people interested in adult nursing relationships (ANR), adult breastfeeding  (ABF), and inducing and maintaining lactation. - ANR/ABF and related activities in the Houston, TX metropolitan area. - ANR Southwest Florida - ANR FL - Adult Nursing Relationship Italia - ANR / ABF / Lactation - Canada - Adult breastfeeding (PERTH)  - ANR/ABF community India - Erotische Laktation (German) - Erotische Laktation & Verkauf (German)   - Hucow Chatroom - for hucows and farmers to talk (and possibly meet) - Hucow Fetisch (German)

Georgia Milkmaid's Telegram Groups

Kik Groups

Global Kik groups

 #loversofadultnursing  - Yes, our breast is best
 #anr2                  - Breast is best Adult nursing chat
 #anr                   - Leaking Breasts
 #abf                   - ANR/ABF
 #anrwomenonly          - Women in ANR (no men)
 #anrgroup2             - Lactation Lovers
 #anrkynk               - ANR Kinky Chat
 #anr4life              - ANR Connection
 #anrabfusasafe         - ANR/ABF Safespace USA
 #usanationalanrabr     - USA National ANR/ABF
 #anrlactation          - ANR/Lactation 21+ D/s welcome
 #anrabflactating       - ANR/ABF Lactating is pleasure         - ANR// Love . Lifestyle
 #anrgroup              - ANR Lovers Unite (21+)
  ANR In The City 21+   - Open this link in Kik to join the room directly.
  Boobielicious ANR/ABF - Open this link in Kik to join the room directly.
 #anr50                 - ANR/ABF for 50+ 
 #ANR.ABF               - 21-40 Nursing
 #ANRgotmilk            - ANR does the body good!
 #ANRworld              - ANR World
 #AnrPlanet             - ANR Planet
 #ANRLove               - Breastfeeding Relationships
 #AnrAbflactationlovers21 - Anr/Abf lactation lovers 21+
 #anrgroup2             - Lactation Lovers
 #anrbreastfeedingandlove - Cuddles and Boobies
 #anrislife               - ANR Lifestyle
 #ABFANR                  - Adult Breastfeeding - Adult Nursing Relationships
 #ANRjournal              - 30+ kik chat for ANR/ABF USA

ANR/ABF Kik groups by State and City (USA)

 #anrTexas           - ANR Texas
 #texasanr           - Texas ANR
 #austinanrabf       - Austin/San Antonio ANR/ABF
 #anrsanantonio      - San Antonio ANR/ABF
 #sanantonioanr      - ANR San Ant
 #anraustin          - Austin ANR
 #abfBeaumont        - Beaumont Wet Nurse/ABF
 #beaumontanr        - Beaumont Milk Club (Open this link in Kik to join the room directly.)
 #anrdfw             - ANR DFW [Dallas/Fort Worth]
 #anrdfwTX           - DFW Lactation Lovers
 #anrdfwftw          - ANR DFW/FTW TX 
 #ANRFortWorthDallas - ANR (AduNursRelationship)
 #anrabf             - ANR/ABF Arkansas.
 #anrAZ              - ANR in AZ [Arizona]
 #anrphx             - ANR/ABF PHX  [Phoenix AZ]
 #alabamaanr         - ANR in Alabama

 #anrcoloado         - Colorado-ANR
 #coloradoanr        - Colorado ANR
 #coloradohucow      - Colorado Hucow
 #anrDenver          - ANR Denver
 #ANRIllinois        - ANR Illinois
 #chicagoanrabf      - Chicago ANR/ABF
 #chicagoanr         - Chicago ANR
 #anrchicago         - ANR Chicago
 #anrsocal           - Southern California ANR
 #SOCALMILKLOVERS    - Southern California Anr/Abf kik group
 #anrlosangeles      - ANR Los Angeles
 #ANRABFSFBAY        - ANR/ABF East Bay Area (San Fransisco) 
 #anrnocal           - Northern California ANR/ABF
 #anrcali            - ANR California Lactation
 #anrcalif           - ANR California Ages 25+
 #anrabfcalionly     - ANR ABF (Only Californians)
 #anrlasvegas        - ANR Las Vegas 
 #anrinMi            - ANR in MI [Michigan]
 #ANRinMN            - ANR in MN [Minnesota]
 #ANRMissouri        - ANR in MO [Missouri]   (Open this link in Kik to join the room directly.) 
 #anrmaine           - ANR Maine 21+
 #Anrinwi            - Wisconsin Boob Lovers
 #ANRConnectionsNYC  - ANR/ABF Lactation Connections NYC [New York City]
 #anrrochesterny     - Rochester NY ANR
 #anrnyc             - Anr in The City
 #ANRNYS             - ANR/ABF NJ-JY-PA-CT-USA (Open this link in Kik to join the room directly.)
 #ANRNJ              - ANR NJ [New Jersey]
 #ANRpennsylvania    - ANR/ABF PA 
 #anrpausa           - ANR Pennsylvania
 #phillyANRABF       - Philadelphia Area ANR/ABF
 #anrphilly          - Philly ANR
 #anrinva            - ANR in VA DMV [Washington DC, Maryland, Virginia]
 #anreastcoast       - ANR/ABF East Coast USA
 #anrtn                - ANR in Tennessee
 #southcarolinaanr     - South Carolina ANR
 #ABF_ANR_Charlotte_NC - ABF/ANR Charlotte North Carolina
 #massachusettsanr   - 21+ ANR/Breast appreciation
 #ANRMass            - ANR/ABF in Massachusetts
 #anrcentralflorida  - Central Florida ANR/ABF [Orlando, Tampa, etc.]
 #ANRswfl            - ANR Southwest Florida
 #anrtampaonly       - Tampa ANR 21-45
 #anrabfeast         - USA S. East ANR NC-FL...  
 #ANRABFOhio         - ANR/ABF [in Ohio]
 #ANRohio            - ANR Ohio
 #anrgeorgia         - ANR Georgia
 #ANRatlanta         - ANR Atlanta  
 #seattleanrabf          - Seattle ANR/ABF (The Best Seattle Group)
 #seattleanr             - Seattle Milk
 #seattleanr2            - Seattle ANR
 #seattleanr3            - Seattle ANR3
 #anrwa                  - ANR kitsap/mason county wa
 #andofeasternwashington - Suckle Room Washington

#ANRwest             - ANR MT WY [Montana/Wyoming]
#anrofthemidwest     - Milk Patrol, Tryout Group, Midwest US

ANR/ABF Kik groups by Country

 #ANRCOMMUNITYUS    - ANR COMMUNITY [USA]           - Anr & Abf UK            - ABF UK Discussions     - Breastmilk UK
 #breastmilkUK      - For UK Only Breast milk
 #abflactation      - ABF/ANR UK Lactation
  ANR London        - Open this link with Kik to join the room directly.
 #ABF.London        - ANR ABF London UK
 #anrlactationuk    - U.K. London Based ANR/ABF/ LACTATION groups
 #anrlactationukabf - ABF Lactation UK Screen Room
 #londonukanr       - U.K. London Based ANR/ABF/ LACTATION groups
 #ukfeeding         - UK ANR/ABF Adult Breastfeeding
 #ANRIreland        - ANR ABF Ireland
 #anrabflatvia      - ANR ABF Latvia
 #anrabfeuro2       - ANR/ABF EUROPE
 #ANR.Australia     - Australia Nursing relationship
 #ABF.Australia     - Australia Adult breastfeeding
 #anraustralian     - Aussie ABF ANR Australian Breastfeeding Group
 #anrabfindia       - ABF and ANR enthusiasts of India
 #anrindia          - Milk Lovers India
 #ANRcanadians      - Canadian ANR
 #anrcanada         - ANR Canada
 #abfcanada         - ABF Canada (18-49)
 #anrcanadian       - ANR Canada
 #anrtoronto        - ANR Toronto Canada
 #anrgta            - ANR/ABF Greater Toronto Area

Hucow Kik groups

 #hucowsfarmers  - Hucows and farmers
 #hucowmilking1  - Hucow
 #hucowsingles   - Hucow Singles
 #hucowlover     - HUCOW
 #hucowhunterz   - Hucow Hunters
 #hucowlove      - Hucow Farm  
 #Hucowcanada    - Hucows in Canada

Discord Servers

  • Discord Chatroom - Lactation Station, a Discord server for breast milk and heavy, swollen tits!

  • Discord Chatroom - Lactation Server Discord

  • Breastfeeding Paradise

  • Discord Chatroom - The Hidden Farm

A Hucow Discord chatroom is available. Here's the description from the owner:

Quote-left.png Whether you're a cow that wants to talk about your kink/desires or an Owner/Farmer/Trainer/Bull that wants to find a cow, The Hidden Farm is gonna become that place ;) From day one we'll have personal ad areas for both cows and owners/farmers/trainers/bulls, a 'training' room, a roleplay area, channels for breast expansion, lactation, ANR/ABR, Breeding, to Selfies/hucow media rooms, Custom user colors and self-assignable roles. Come call The Hidden Farm your new home ;)


Matrix Rooms and Spaces

Note: In order to use Matrix, you will need an account. Most people get one through, but there are numerous other providers

  • Breast Milk Lovers' Room
  • The Matrix ANR Space

Dating Websites

  • ANR Community: Building Community, Support and Education (requires account creation to view page)

  • ANRelationships - A Site for Adult Nursing and Adult Breast feeding relationships

  • Milk Sweet Milk - An Adult Breastfeeding Community (requires account creation to view page) 

  • - Bringing Lactation Lovers Together! (requires account creation to view page)

  • ANR Friends

  • ABF Singles (requires account creation to view page)
  • Dreams of Milk Personals  

  • Land of Milk and Honey Personal Forums
  • Yahoo Personals Groups (requires account creation to view page)

  • ABF Heaven: Adult Breastfeeding & Nursing Relationships - the successor to (requires account creation to view page)

NOTE: Links from any other site have to be approved by the admin. Approval process is non-transparent.

Virtual Reality Apps

Second Life Groups

secondlife:///app/group/bc6d8c93-1640-0455-4754-5a28cc5ff8d9/about - Erotic Lactation: Adult Nursing
secondlife:///app/group/c0e01d7d-29ff-bdbb-c3ec-394236b2371d/about - Adult Breastfeeding and Milking
secondlife:///app/group/9d05fa58-a412-477d-1d41-4faf3270d8f3/about - Lactation Nation

Forums and Microblogging Sites

General Forums - The Breast Nexum, an online forum for those seeking help with induction

Tapatalk - ANR Southwest Florida

MeWe Groups       - Adult Breastfeeding/Nursing Relationships - Lactation Support Group - ANR/ABF Florida 21+ - Utah Breast Milk Lovers

Search for ANR groups to join on MeWe too.

Fetlife: ANR/ABF groups and member count as of 2017-2019

(requires account creation to view page)  (Lactation Personal and Classified, 2273 members)  (Adult Breast Feeding Relationships, 2373 members)  (MILK MY TITS ! (Lactation), 4398 members)   (MilkMaids, 4262 members)  (Adult Breast Feeding Personals, 4165 members)  (I am your Breast friend, 804 members)  (adult breast feeding, 379 members)  (ABFSingles, 1152 members)   (Breastfeeding for Adults and Milky Kinksters, 7753 members)  (Lactating Ladies who love to be milked..., 3145 members)    (Lactation and ANR in the Framework of BDSM, 3,848 members)   (Lactation Lovers, 3069 members)  (Dry Nursing, 935 members)  (Nursing, 164 members) (Nursing ~The Milk and The Honey~ , 198 members)  (Breast Pumping, 1758 members)  (Chicks with big nipples,who love them to be sucked, 1498 members)  (Lactation and Breast Lovers Cruise, 713 members)  (LactationNation, 430 members)  (Adult Breast Feeding Relationships, 2774 members)  (ANR/Lactation, 971 memebers)  (Erotic Lactation Fetish, 926 members)  (Lactation, Breast Bondage and Nipple Play, 303 members) (Professional Wet Nurses and Adult Nursers, 109 members)  (Lactation and Breast Lovers Cruise, 747 members) (BBW Lactation/Nursing, 627 members)  (Polyamorous ANR, ABF, & Erotic Lactation, 214 members)  (Breast Milk Squirting and other Lactating sports, 34 members)  (jewish that wish to meet ANR, lactating, breastfeeding people, 25 members) (Black women into ANR/ABF, 253 members) (Interracial ANR, 32 members)   (Dommes Who Nurse Their Subs, 672 members)  (Suckling, 443 members) (Milky Monday, 315 members)   (Nursing Bras, 242 members) (Tantric Breast Therapy, 292 members)  (Nipple Play Personals, 1331 members) (Breastcentric Women, 96 members) (Breast Feeding Doms subs and the like, 42 members)  (Adult Nursing Relationships with the Emphasis on the Relationships, 106 members) (Alphha male sucklers, 8 members) (ANR/ ABF and Lactation for all Personals, 12 members)  (Milk ladies, by location, 121 members)  (Induced Lactation UK, 212 members)  (Wiltshire ANR, 7 members)  (lactate-ireland, 49 members) (Lactation in Belgium, 4 members)  (Lactating, ABF, ANR South Africa, 9 members)  (Allaitement (lactation) france, 86 membres)  (Queensland Lactating Lovers, 149 members) (Brisbane Breast Worship, 76 members)   (Lactation Fans of Qld [Queensland], 113 members)  (Perth Lactation Linkup, 29 members)  (milkmaids in Melbourne, Australia, 287 members) (All Australian Adult Breastfeeding & Lactation Support Group (Victoria, New South Wales, Queensland, Western Australia, Northern Territory, South Australia, ACT, Tasmania), 345 members)  (Pregnancy and Lactation New Zealand, 116 members) (Lactation Brasil, 3 members)  (Adult Breastfeeding Relationship Indonesia, 2 members) (Breastfeeding in India, 25 members) (ANR/ABR Turkey, 8 members)  (Breastfeeding In Columbia, 2 members) (Lactation in Canada, 54 members) (British Columbia Sucklers, 34 members)  (Vancouver women who want to lactate and suckle, 109 members)  (Lactation & Breast/Nipple/Teat Sucking in Toronto, 209 members)  (Alberta, Canada Breastfeeding and lactation, 214 members)  (Halifax ANR/ABF and Lactation, 54 members)  (Lactating in Edmonton, 73 members)  (Lactation in Chicago, 296 members) (Chicago breastfeeding group, 19 members)  (Chicago area ANR, 269 members)  (Illinois/Wisconsin Lactating Ladies & Fans, 284 members)  (Chicago Breast Milk Society, 182 members)  (Atlanta (metro and surrounding area) ANR & ABF, 142 members)  (Atlanta Area ANR/ABF Munch Group, 147 members)  (ATL Milky Mammas, 64 members)  (Lactation and ANR in New York, 598 members)  (Indianapolis Lactation, 147 members)  (Twin Cities [Minneapolis/St Paul] Metro ANR Fetish Group, 208 members)  (Lactating in Massachusetts, 185 members)  (California ABF, ANR, Lactation and Hucow Singles, 727 members)  (SoCAL Lactation, 319 members)  (Central California ABF & ANR Breastfeeding and Lactation, 106 members)  (San Francisco (Bay Area) Lactation and ANR/ABF, 372 members)  (SF Bay Area Lactation, 535 members) (Milk Munch (SF Bay), 116 members)  (LA [Los Angeles] Milky Tit Mamas, 328 members)  (California Adult Breastfeeding, 881 members) (Inducing lactation in non-pregnant women in Northern California, 42 members) (East Coast Hucows and Milkers, 155 members)  (Maryland Lactation Lovers, 183 members)  (Lactation In Central Kentucky, 171 members)  (Illinois/Wisconsin Lactating Ladies & Fans, 253 members)  (New Mexico Lactation and ANR, 73 members)  (AZ [Arizona] Lactation Lovers, 34 members)  (Arizona ANR & Milk Lovers, 478 members)  ([Washington] DC Milk, Lactation, ANR/ABF and Inducing, 819 members) (DFW [Dallas/Fort Worth] breastfeeding/lactation, 249 members)  (DFW Lactation, 79 members)  (OKC ANR/ABF, 295 members) (Lactating in Alaska, 22 members)  (ANR Alaska, 41 members)  (Washington state Women into Breastfeeding/Lactation/ANR/Dry Nursing/Suckling/Breasts, 198 members)  (Seattle MilkMaids, 316 members)   (Central MA Hucow And Lactation, 135 members)  (ANR lactation relationships for Texas and surrounding area's, 476 members)  (looking for Southern Texas abf/ anr, 112 members)  (Adult Lactation and ANR/ABF in Plano, Murphy, and Richardson TX, 425 members) (Texas ABF & wet nursing, 237 members)  (Houston Area Induced Lactation (H.A.I.L.), 220 members) (The Titty Committee, Houston Chapter, 139 members) (ANR/ABF Houston/spring/woodlands, 145 members) (Erotic Lactation (San Antonio), 11 members)  (Missouri Lactation Lovers, 12 members)  (Lactation & ANR in PA[Pennsylvania]/NJ[New Jersey]/DE[Delaware], 414 members)  (ANR IN Allentown/Bethlehem PA, 45 members)  (Pittsburgh lactation and breast play personals, 47 members)  (New England ANR/ABR/ Breastfeeding and Lactation, 465 members)  (Lactation & Breast Lovers in The Pacific North West, 160 members)  (Central NC[North Carolina] Lactation, 183 members) (Charlotte, NC area Lactation Group, 40 members) (NC Lactation/ANR - Single Sucklers Wanted, 96 members)  (South Carolina Lactation Lovers, 55 members) (Carolina Breastfeeding kinksters & lactating lovers for ANR/ABF, 40 members)  (Colorado Lactation ABF/ANR (adult breast feeding), 241 members)  (Lactation Aspects In BDSM in Huntsville, Alabama, 32 members)  (Lactating Ladies of Central Florida, 192 members) (Florida Lactation Personals, 97 members) (ANR South Florida, 18 members) (Central Iowa Lactators, 10 people)  (Iowa Lactators and those who love them, 109 members) (Ohio's ABF/ANR, 104 members) (anr/abf columbus, ohio, 29 members) (Cincinnati Area Lactation League (C.A.L.L.), 123 members) (Kentucky Milk - ANR/ABF, 24 members) (Tennessee Lactation ~ ANR ~ ABF, 67 members) (Chattanooga ANR and Pregnant Lactating Lovelies and Lovers, 18 members) (Michigan Induced lactation, 7 members)  (Missouri milkers, 108 members)  (Kansas city KC milk men and maids, 148 members)  (Reno area lactation lovers, 22 members) (Las Vegas Lactating Ladies (LLL), 25 members) (lactation in las vegas, 30 members) (ANR/ABF Lactation in Louisiana, 13 members)  (Got Milk, Nola? 217 members)

Use our search tips to find more groups!

Reddit groups

Facebook ANR Groups

(closed groups: must request an invite and await approval)                                 - Adult Breastfeeding Relationships                                           - Adult Nursing Relationship (ANR/ABF) US Only                                  - ANR in Indiaão-Amamentação-adulta-690804474591791  - Lactofilia Maranhão-Amamentação adulta           - Amamentação adulta

Twitter and Instagram

Get Creamed - ANR/ABF page where men and women can come together and share stories, ideas, tips, pictures, and get educated on adult breastfeeding

True_ANR - Helping people understand adult breastfeeding / adult nursing relationships (ANR/ABF)

Misc. Sites and WebPages

  • - The Largest BDSM Community on the Planet (rare but occasionally one can find someone) (requires account creation to view page)

  • Kinkyads: A free Casual Encounter posting site for the Kink Community (requires account creation to view page) - (search for milk, breast play, suckling, breastfeed, hucow, ANR, or ABF)

  • Fetopia: The European BDSM, fetish & kink community (requires account creation to view page) - similar to Fetlife; it has a couple of groups dedicated to lactation and breastfeeding (search for milk, breast play, suckling, breastfeed, hucow, ANR, or ABF).

  • AseeksB - Modern Personal Ads & Dating App (requires account creation to view page)

AseeksB is a modern personal ads & dating app where you can find like-minded individuals in an inclusive, sex-positive, and kink-friendly environment.

  • - ANR/ABF/Breast/Nipple Play for the Houston, Texas metropolitan area community page.

  •'s Forum zum Thema Erotische Laktation

  • Erotic Lactation.De - A German ANR website

  • Erotic Lactation.Dk - A danish lactation web community

  • Forum dédié à la sexualité entre adultes axé sur la lactation érotique (allaitement entre adultes).

  • Russian community ANR / ABF - BDSMPeople.Club

A Few Notes

Quote-left.png Here are the seven ANR characteristics: Adventurous, Romantic, Nurturing, Tactile, Simple, Soft and Spiritual. The most important of the seven are softness, tactility and a nurturing disposition. Quote-right.png

  • The ANR lover’s profile: how to tell if she (or he) would almost certainly say yes

Quote-left.png To summarize, seek the guy with great husband and father potential, masculine yet sensitive, a family man, open to trying new things and looks like he’ll know how to make a woman happy in the bedroom. Quote-right.png

  • A brief description of the ANR-interested man

Quote-left.png When you meet your potential partner. Don't bring up ANR or breastfeeding. This will scare most of them away. The best approach is be honest without giving too much information. Here is how you tell someone you are into ANR without saying ANR or breastfeeding.

If you are in sucking on the boob. Then you might say "I'm a boob man/woman and I love sucking on boobs."

If you are wanting your breast sucked on. Then you might say "I love it when the attention is on the breasts." or "I love having my breast sucked on." Quote-right.png

  • How to find your True ANR partner - Understanding Adult nursing relationships / Adult breastfeding relationships


Frequently Asked Questions About ANRs/Adult Breastfeeding