How to Talk to Your Partner About ANR

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What's The Best Approach?

For men, the best approach we've seen is to include the fact that women can induce without pregnancy and that starting with dry sucking at first is okay. Other women have written about their experiences and how enjoyable it is.

For women, it is perfectly okay to let your partner nurse. It doesn't make him less manly; He may even find it arousing (warning:NSFW).

How do I convince my partner/spouse to do this?

Quote-left.png You can share with them what the fascination is for you, what it means to you, why you want to try it, and the benefits you think it would bring to the relationship. Then you need to listen and hear them out in return. You can’t force them to enter into an ANR. Quote-right.png

Excerpt from an article.

See also this discussion, an article on encouraging sexual openness in relationships, our page and an external article on acknowledging the connection between breastfeeding and arousal, and's Guide to Sharing Kinks. Vice also has a very good article about how to disclose kinks if you are in a relationship

More Information

Some couples practice ABF in order to strengthen their relationship. Read for yourself a few ANR testimonials and stories or watch videos of couples practicing adult breastfeeding. (warning:NSFW)

Reach out to others by using our ANR/ABF online communities list page to seek others who are in this lifestyle.

See the Inducing Lactation Resources page if you're interested in starting lactation without a pregnancy, for an ANR, or for your partner.


Frequently Asked Questions About ANRs/Adult Breastfeeding