How to Talk to Your Partner About ANR
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What's The Best Approach?
For men, the best approach we've seen is to include the fact that women can induce without pregnancy and that starting with dry sucking at first is okay. Other women have written about their experiences and how enjoyable it is.
For women, it is perfectly okay to let your partner nurse. It doesn't make him less manly; He may even find it arousing (warning:NSFW).
How do I convince my partner/spouse to do this?
You can share with them what the fascination is for you, what it means to you, why you want to try it, and the benefits you think it would bring to the relationship. Then you need to listen and hear them out in return. You can’t force them to enter into an ANR.
Excerpt from an UncoverIntimacy.com article.
See also this discussion, an article on encouraging sexual openness in relationships, our page and an external article on acknowledging the connection between breastfeeding and arousal, and Lifehacker.com's Guide to Sharing Kinks. Vice also has a very good article about how to disclose kinks if you are in a relationship
More Information
Some couples practice ABF in order to strengthen their relationship. Read for yourself a few ANR testimonials and stories or watch videos of couples practicing adult breastfeeding. (warning:NSFW)
Reach out to others by using our ANR/ABF online communities list page to seek others who are in this lifestyle.
See the Inducing Lactation Resources page if you're interested in starting lactation without a pregnancy, for an ANR, or for your partner.
Frequently Asked Questions About ANRs/Adult Breastfeeding
What is Erotic Lactation/Breastfeeding? (warning:NSFW)
What is an Adult Nursing Relationship (ANR)?
What is Adult Breastfeeding (ABF)? What is the difference between Adult Breastfeeding and an Adult Nursing Relationship? (warning:NSFW)
What are the benefits of being in an Adult Nursing Relationship?
What does it look like? (warning:NSFW)
Where can I find others online that are into ANR/ABF? Where can I find a partner? Do people meet in the real world?
Is there a way to promote on my dating profile that I'm into ANR/ABF?
Depending on which site you're on, you might be able to use our memes (warning:NSFW) or make your own. Additionally, the site logo is free to use to upload to your profile; pin button and flyer templates are now available.
I want to breastfeed or induce lactation for my husband/boyfriend. Can I?
Could this strengthen our marriage/relationship?
How can I explain to my husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend/partner/spouse/significant other that I want to breastfeed/induce?
Wouldn't my husband/boyfriend be less of a man if he suckles from me?
Why do I feel uncomfortable with my partner touching or playing with my breasts while I'm lactating? (warning:NSFW)
Is lactating for pleasure sinful?
Do adults actually drink breast milk?
Why are breasts so taboo in Western culture? (warning:NSFW)
If I wanted to teach a class on Erotic Lactation and/or Inducing Lactation, where should I start?
