Adult Wet Nursing
What is an adult wet nurse?
A wet nurse was typically a lactating woman who is hired to breastfeed another woman's baby, which was quite popular before the start of the 19th century. It is not as widely practiced in the present day United States of America but it is still practiced in many other parts of the world. These days, it can be possible to find a wet nurse for an adult with a little bit of patience and a modest fee.
Inspired by a MadeMan.com article.
Where can I find an adult wet nurse?
- Fetlife has a group for Adult Wet Nurses (as of April 2019).
https://fetlife.com/groups/166273 (Texas ABF & wet nursing, 45 members) https://fetlife.com/groups/210019 (Professional Wet Nurses and Adult Nursers, 109 members)
- Reddit - r/WetNurseProfessionals: Professional Adult Wet Nurses
https://www.reddit.com/r/WetNurseProfessionals
- South America: Club de Lactofilia Amamantame Perú - Lactancia para Adultos - Amamantando Adultos
http://www.amamanta.me/peru.html
- Lactante no Brasil - Acompanhantes | PhotoAcompanhantes
https://www.photoacompanhantes.com/acompanhantes/brasil/procurar.lactante
Here is a list of known nurses:
| Name | Location | Contact Info | Notes |
|---|---|---|---|
| DFWMilkMaid | Dallas, TX | Reddit page | Dry nursing to induce & looking for sucklers |
| honeymilkmaidatx | Austin, TX | Fetlife page (requires account creation to view page) | Travels to Houston, Texas and California. |
| TherapeuticABF | Asheville, North Carolina | Fetlife page (requires account creation to view page) | Current travel calendar (requires account creation to view page) |
| TherapeuticABF31 | Auburn, Indiana | Fetlife page (requires account creation to view page) | Will not host/pay for a hotel room/drive (more than) 2 hours. |
| SweetNipples7 | Elgin, Illinois | Fetlife page (requires account creation to view page) | Is close to Chicago. |
| lactatinglisa | Frisco, TX | Fetlife page (requires account creation to view page) | Direct kik account available on Fetlife page. |
| WiddleMsPoohBear | Fort Worth,TX | Fetlife page (requires account creation to view page) | Direct kik account available on Fetlife page. |
| Mamas_milk | Victoria, British Columbia, Canada | Fetlife page (requires account creation to view page) | Also sells frozen or fresh breast milk. |
| LactatingLucy | Wexford, Ireland | Twitter page | Website link on Twitter page. |
| MissSweetCream | Fayette, AL | Twitter page | Lactating, natural 42H. She offers ABF in the Atlanta, Memphis, Birmingham area. |
| MandiB | Augusta, GA | Fetlife page (requires account creation to view page) | Direct kik account available on Fetlife page. Also sells fresh/frozen milk. |
| MilkMaid4U0822 | Atlanta, GA | Fetlife page (requires account creation to view page) | Rarely sees anyone under 30, focused on 55 and over. Contact email for more details. |
| NJMilkmaid | Trenton, New Jersey | Fetlife page (requires account creation to view page) | Direct kik account and email address available on Fetlife page. |
| ms-milky | Coquitlam, British Columbia, Canada | Fetlife page (requires account creation to view page) | Available in the greater Vancouver and Fraser Valley regions. Contact email for more details. |
| lacgal | Oregon | Fetlife page (requires account creation to view page) | Contact via her Fetlife page for pricing, more information, or to schedule a consultation. Also has a Fansly page. |
| lucyhermance | Saratoga Springs, New York | Fetlife page (requires account creation to view page) | Contact via her Fetlife page for pricing, rules, or to schedule a consultation. |
| Danielle1232 | Indiana | Fetlife page (requires account creation to view page) | Contact via her Fetlife page for rules or to schedule a consultation. |
| lactatingqueen | Cincinnati, Ohio | Fetlife page (requires account creation to view page) | Contact via her Fetlife page for rules. |
Do you know a wet nurse that can be added to this list? Please let us know and we will add them here.
More Information
Some couples practice ABF in order to strengthen their relationship. Read for yourself a few ANR testimonials and stories or watch videos of couples practicing adult breastfeeding. (warning:NSFW)
Reach out to others by using our ANR/ABF online communities list page to seek others who are in this lifestyle.
See the Inducing Lactation Resources page if you're interested in starting lactation without a pregnancy, for an ANR, or for your partner.
Frequently Asked Questions About ANRs/Adult Breastfeeding
What is Erotic Lactation/Breastfeeding? (warning:NSFW)
What is an Adult Nursing Relationship (ANR)?
What is Adult Breastfeeding (ABF)? What is the difference between Adult Breastfeeding and an Adult Nursing Relationship? (warning:NSFW)
What are the benefits of being in an Adult Nursing Relationship?
What does it look like? (warning:NSFW)
Where can I find others online that are into ANR/ABF? Where can I find a partner? Do people meet in the real world?
What is an adult wet nurse?
Is there a way to promote on my dating profile that I'm into ANR/ABF?
Depending on which site you're on, you might be able to use our memes (warning:NSFW) or make your own. Additionally, the site logo is free to use to upload to your profile; pin button and flyer templates are now available.
I want to breastfeed or induce lactation for my husband/boyfriend. Can I?
Could this strengthen our marriage/relationship?
Wouldn't my husband/boyfriend be less of a man if he suckles from me?
Why do I feel uncomfortable with my partner touching or playing with my breasts while I'm lactating? (warning:NSFW)
Is lactating for pleasure sinful?
Do adults actually drink breast milk?
Why are breasts so taboo in Western culture? (warning:NSFW)
If I wanted to teach a class on Erotic Lactation and/or Inducing Lactation, where should I start?
