Where to Look for Potential Partners

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The Big List

Here are sites, apps, and suggestions for personals where one can connect with others in the community.

Note: If you're looking for a partner and there's not anyone near you, create a post! You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Good luck!

If you don't see your area listed, create a Kik group, let us know, and we'll list it here. You can also use our rules picture templates.

  • Global Kik groups
 #loversofadultnursing    - Yes, our breast is best
 #anr2                    - Breast is best Adult nursinng chat
 #anrlactation            - ANR/Lactation 21+ D/s welcome
 #anrabflactating         - ANR/ABF Lactating is pleasure
 #ANR.lifestyle           - ANR// Love . Lifestyle
 #anrgroup                - ANR Lovers Unite (21+)
 #ANR.ABF                 - 21-40 Nursing
 #ANRgotmilk              - ANR does the body good!
 #ANRworld                - ANR World
 #AnrPlanet               - ANR Planet
 #ANRLove                 - Breastfeeding Relationships
 #AnrAbflactationlovers21 - Anr/Abf lactation lovers 21+
 #anrgroup2               - Lactation Lovers
 #anrbreastfeedingandlove - Cuddles and Boobies
 #anrislife               - ANR Lifestyle

  • ANR/ABF Kik groups by State and City (USA)

 #TexasABFANR          - Texas ABF/ANR 
 #texasanr             - Texas ANR
 #austinanrabf         - Austin ANR/ABF
 #austinanr            - Austin ANR
 #houstonmilklovers    - Houston Lactophiliacs (for those seeking adult wet nurses or breast milk)
 #anrabfhouston        - Houston ANR/ABF
 #anrsanantonio        - San Antonio ANR/ABF
 #anrdfw               - ANR DFW [Dallas/Fort Worth]
 #ANRFortWorthDallas   - ANR (AduNursRelationship)
 #anrabflouisiana      - Louisiana ANR/ABF
 #anrabf               - ANR/ABF Arkansas.
 #anrAZ                - ANR in AZ [Arizona]
 #anrcolorado          - ANR Colorado (New!)
 #ANRIllinois          - ANR Illinois
 #chicagoanrabf        - Chicago ANR/ABF
 #chicagoanr           - Chicago ANR
 #anrsocal             - Southern California ANR
 #anrnocal             - Northern California ANR/ABF
 #anrcali              - ANR California Lactation
 #anrinMi              - ANR in MI [Michigan]
 #ANRinMN              - ANR in MN [Minnesota]
 #Anrinwi              - Wisconsin Boob Lovers
 #ABF_ANR_Charlotte_NC - ABF/ANR Charlotte North Carolina
 #ANRNJNY              - ANR in NJ/NY [New Jersey&New York]
 #ANRpennsylvania      - ANR/ABF PA
 #anrinva              - ANR in VA DMV [Virginia]
 #ANRFlorida           - ANR FLorida
 #anrcentralflorida    - Central Florida ANR/ABF [Orlando, Tampa, etc.]
 #ANRABFOhio           - ANR/ABF [in Ohio]
 #ANRohio              - ANR Ohio
 #anrgeorgia           - ANR Georgia
 #ANRatlanta           - ANR Atlanta  
 #anrtn                - ANR in Tennessee
 #washingtondcanrabf   - Washington DC ANR/ABF
 #seattleanrabf        - Seattle ANR/ABF (The Best Seattle Group)
 #seattleanr           - Seattle Milk
 #seattleanr2          - Seattle ANR
 #lasvegasanr          - Las Vegas ANR/ABF
 #ANR.uk.             - Anr & Abf UK
 #parisanr            - Paris ANR/ABF [France]
 #anraustralia        - Australia ANR/ABF
 #anrabfindia         - ABF and ANR enthusiasts of India
 #anrabfchina         - China ANR/ABF
 #anrabfhongkong      - Hong Kong ANR/ABF
 #ANRcanadians        - Canadian ANR
 #anrcanada           - ANR Canada
 #canadaanr           - Canada ANR/ABF
 #abfiickschlampen    - Weiberdieihrgernfiickenwollt

 #hucowsfarmers  - Hucows and farmers
 #hucowmilking1  - Hucow
 #hucowsingles   - Hucow Singles
 #hucowlover     - HUCOW
 #hucowhunterz   - Hucow Hunters
 #hucowlove      - Hucow Farm  

A Hucow Discord chatroom is available. Here's the description from the owner:

Quote-left.png Whether you're a cow that wants to talk about your kink/desires or an Owner/Farmer/Trainer/Bull that wants to find a cow, The Hidden Farm is gonna become that place ;) From day one we'll have personal ad areas for both cows and owners/farmers/trainers/bulls, a 'training' room, a roleplay area, channels for breast expansion, lactation, ANR/ABR, Breeding, to Selfies/hucow media rooms, Custom user colors and self-assignable roles. Come call The Hidden Farm your new home ;)


*The Hidden Farm

  • Anrconnections.com - Bringing Lactation Lovers Together! (requires account creation to view page)

  • ABF Singles (requires account creation to view page)

  • Fetlife: ANR/ABF groups and member count as of 2017 (requires account creation to view page)
https://fetlife.com/groups/27403  (Lactation Personal and Classified, 2273 members)
https://fetlife.com/groups/44116  (Adult Breast Feeding Relationships, 2373 members)
https://fetlife.com/groups/40781  (MILK MY TITS ! (Lactation), 4398 members)
https://fetlife.com/groups/5883   (MilkMaids, 4262 members)
https://fetlife.com/groups/16726  (Adult Breast Feeding Personals, 4165 members)
https://fetlife.com/groups/45242  (adult breast feeding, 379 members)
https://fetlife.com/groups/27772  (ABFSingles, 1152 members)
https://fetlife.com/groups/3986   (Breastfeeding for Adults and Milky Kinksters, 7753 members)
https://fetlife.com/groups/37999  (Lactating Ladies who love to be milked..., 2453 members)
https://fetlife.com/groups/217    (Lactation and ANR in the Framework of BDSM, 3613 members)
https://fetlife.com/groups/4800   (Lactation Lovers, 3069 members)
https://fetlife.com/groups/65032  (Dry Nursing, 935 members)
https://fetlife.com/groups/56548  (Chicks with big nipples,who love them to be sucked, 1498 members)
https://fetlife.com/groups/101683 (Professional Adult Wet Nurses and MilkMaids, 573 members)
https://fetlife.com/groups/58415  (Lactation and Breast Lovers Cruise, 713 members)
https://fetlife.com/groups/28639  (LactationNation, 430 members)
https://fetlife.com/groups/52638  (ANR/Lactation, 971 memebers)
  • Reddit groups

  • Telegram Groups (requires Telegram app to sign up. It uses your mobile number to do SMS verification (no spammer robots, please). Afterwards you can put in whatever username you want. Your number isn't shared with anyone. It also has a web browser version.)
https://telegram.me/ANRChat     - Discussion Group for ANR/ABF/NBE
https://telegram.me/HucowChat   - Hucow Chatroom - for hucows and farmers to talk (and possibly meet)
https://telegram.me/anrabfnyc   - ABF/ANR NYC [New York City]

  • Kwink ABF ANR Dating Community (requires account creation to view page)

  • Dreams of Milk Personals


  • Land of Milk and Honey Personal Forums

  • Yahoo Personals Groups (requires account creation to view page)

  • ANR Chat app on Google Play


  • Collarspace.com - The Largest BDSM Community on the Planet (rare but occasionally one can find someone) (requires account creation to view page)

A Few Notes

Quote-left.png Here are the seven ANR characteristics: Adventurous, Romantic, Nurturing, Tactile, Simple, Soft and Spiritual. The most important of the seven are softness, tactility and a nurturing disposition. Quote-right.png

  • The ANR lover’s profile: how to tell if she (or he) would almost certainly say yes

Quote-left.png To summarize, seek the guy with great husband and father potential, masculine yet sensitive, a family man, open to trying new things and looks like he’ll know how to make a woman happy in the bedroom. Quote-right.png

  • A brief description of the ANR-interested man


Frequently Asked Questions About ANRs/Adult Breastfeeding