Experiences in Inducing Lactation and ANR
Here are some links for diaries, books, and blogs about the journey of breastfeeding a boyfriend or husband or their experience of nursing from their spouse. A pregnancy is not required to lactate, if desired.
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After doing a little research on the topic I realized that there was undoubtedly a lot of benefits from nursing your husband. The stress release alone was enough to sell me on the idea. Besides, my husband has spent a lot of time sucking on my breasts in the bedroom anyway. Why not focus the time to generate a greater end result?...
- A Journey of ANR: How an adult nursing relationship is saving our marriage
I stumbled upon an article explaining ANRs and it just sent shivers through my whole body reading about the emotional bond, the closeness, the heightened intimacy, etc. That started me on a massive google search of "lactating without pregnancy," and I was astounded at the wealth of information out there. So, I tentatively approached him with the topic and he was completely open to it, excited about it even, and we went about doing a ton of research and started me on drinking tons of water, taking herbs, and using motilium (domperidone) to really kick start the whole process. It was a long one at first, a week in I was still producing just drops but they were white and thick and creamy.
Two weeks in and I was producing maybe a teaspoon, and then finally the glands and ducts switched over and I was able to shoot streams at him; which I did with great delight when he least expected it, or when we were in the shower...
- Adult Breastfeeding Relationship: A Journey - Why I Chose An ANR
ha i thought i was the only one who was getting "milked" as foreplay. I'm not even really lactating yet just a little leakage here and there as i'm almost 6 months and my boyfriend is always squeezing them trying to make them leak ha it drives me nuts but he gets off on it. i suppose the fact that i went from a A/small B to a very full C going on D adds to his obsession with them. no surprise there.
- BabyCenter Community Forum: Guys who like lactation during sex?
I notice that thinking about my husband makes my breasts ache. Some of the initial excitement has worn off and now I feel like I'm settling in. This is what we do now. He's on my breasts at night and in the morning. I have a stretch of 4 days off coming up and he's off for the first two. We'll be together for 2 solid days and can breastfeed every 2 hours together...
- I Love Being Suckled By My Sweet Husband - Inducing lactation: days 1-4
Sharing an adult nursing partnership with the person you love can be a beautiful and healthy part of any relationship, but taking those first steps toward t he opening of such an exquisitely uncommon lifestyle practice isn't always easy. Because the practice of adult nursing is often unfamiliar—and even frightening—to some people, we must first face the challenges and conquer our own fears concerning the physical and emotional dynamics of breastfeeding.
We do this by quelling unfair stigmas and harsh stereotypes, casting aside all that we have been shown through biased and often sensationalized bits of media fodder, and ignoring the unrealistic images we can so easily discover through the magic of the Internet, eventually finding it within ourselves to answer our own questions, confront our personal moral dilemmas, and cast aside our inhibitions to enjoy what we know is right for us. We do all of this privately, sometimes alone, and sometimes with the love and support of our partner, and in doing so, often without realizing it, we have taken those first steps toward the world of adult nursing...
- Love's Sweet Embrace: A Couple's Guide to the Loving Adult Nursing Relationship and the Journey into Breastfeeding Kindle Edition
Women choose to induce lactation for many reasons, and each journey is a truly personal one. Sometimes, they do this with the help of a loving and supportive partner, and other times, they do this alone. For Cheryl, the journey of self-inducing began quite by chance, when, after experiencing health issues, and researching alternative medicine, she discovered that stimulation of the breasts could lead to the production of milk...
- My Self-Inducing Journey: Cheryl's Story - Bountiful Fruits
While the thought of producing an abundance of flowing breast milk is an intriguing thought, many couples find that encouraging lactation is a true labor of love, one that takes a great deal of time and dedicated effort. As beautiful as nursing is, it can be difficult to find time for carefully-timed routine suckling sessions. When breast milk is a true desire (or perhaps even a priority) within a committed adult nursing relationship, but a partner is not always avaiilable to provide suckling, women may opt to use alternative methods of encouraging lactation; they do this by self-inducing...
- My Self-Inducing Journey: Julie's Story - Bountiful Fruits
Cozily sitting on our bed, we were holding each others...softly having romantic talks and kissing every now & then in between our talks. Trying feeling every breathe of her, trying reading what those beautiful eyes were telling to me. ...slowly we became more closer, my chest was touching her chest, touching her beautiful-soft-fluffy breasts, I could count her heart-beats then...
- Experience Project: I Love Suckling Milk From a Woman's Beautiful Breasts - Story & Experience
A: Yes. It's entirely possible, and there are actually adoptive mothers who stimulate milk production so they can breastfeed their new babies.
- Reddit - IAmA Woman in an Adult Breastfeeding Relationship AMA : IAmA
I'm in my upper 30s, and this was one of the most intense sensual experience I've ever had. I felt like every single sense was being meticulously cared for in a way they had never all been simultaneously stimulated before. It was insanely incredible...
- Reddit - My first ANR experience this evening. Here's my story.
I wanted to feel close to her, I wanted to be connected and feel better. It's so calming for me but I just felt like it would help. So I gently rubbed her side and asked her if I could nurse while she was sleeping. Of course, she is so amazing and immediately said, "yeah! sure!", felt her breasts to tell which one was most full and let me know, "You'll want to nurse on this one." She rolled over to give me access and allowed me to unlatch her nursing shirt, pull out her breast and begin nursing.
I immediately felt so calm, so loved, and so much better. I nursed until I got a let down and drank her sweet milk until her breast was empty. I felt so much better. I hugged her breast with my face, kissed them, and closed up her nursing shirt. I thanked her and we both rolled over to go to sleep...
- Reddit - I wanted to share a sweet moment with you all that really meant a lot to me last night
A:Hi! Thank you for your comment! I started in October of last year, about 4 months ago. I mostly use my hands but I also have an electric breast pump. When I started, I would massage my nipples for 20 minutes, 6 times per day. As I continued, my nipples became more and more sensitive and pleasurable to the touch, which I didn't expect! ...When I know I'm stimulating the right part of my breasts, I feel small, uterine contractions that are like a mini orgasm. It took one month of daily massage, 6x a day, to start producing drops of milk, and then I started using the breast pumps. I was streaming milk after two months.
- Reddit - I'm single and I induced lactation because it turns me on. I've never been pregnant. I would love to read your comments. <3
My husband and I are in our sixties. I breastfed our children and because of social conditioning it never crossed our minds for him to [enjoy] the gift of my breasts. Five years ago we began enjoying longer periods of foreplay before sex-and because my husband has always enjoyed my breasts … Eventually I began producing milk and boy did his interest sky rocket and my joy of gift giving fulfilled . Because we are retired we have the time to have … sessions 4-6 times per day and when we are busy every 12 hours work just fine. We never saw it as him being a submissive husband, a baby, a child, only a very special time of snuggling and bonding. This special bonding has taken our long marriage to a higher level of intimacy...
- Reviews and testimonials, mostly from female ANR enthusiasts
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