Experiences in Inducing Lactation and ANR
Here are some links for ANR stories, books, and blogs about the journey of breastfeeding a boyfriend or husband, or their experience of nursing from their spouse. A pregnancy or having kids is not required to lactate.
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After doing a little research on the topic I realized that there was undoubtedly a lot of benefits from nursing your husband. The stress release alone was enough to sell me on the idea. Besides, my husband has spent a lot of time sucking on my breasts in the bedroom anyway. Why not focus the time to generate a greater end result?...
- A Journey of ANR: How an adult nursing relationship is saving our marriage
Sometimes it's sexual, other times it's not. Sometimes I'm just feeling cuddly and nurturing. I have a lot of varying emotions about this. Years ago when I nursed a child it was just about feeding the baby and I had no thoughts on an anr. I just did what I needed to do. But way later down the road I initiated anr to my husband because I loved how I physically felt while lactating and missed it, and he is the only man I have ever wanted to cuddle.
- Reddit - A woman's perspective : Adult Breastfeeding
I stumbled upon an article explaining ANRs and it just sent shivers through my whole body reading about the emotional bond, the closeness, the heightened intimacy, etc. That started me on a massive google search of "lactating without pregnancy," and I was astounded at the wealth of information out there. So, I tentatively approached him with the topic and he was completely open to it, excited about it even, and we went about doing a ton of research and started me on drinking tons of water, taking herbs, and using motilium (domperidone) to really kick start the whole process. It was a long one at first, a week in I was still producing just drops but they were white and thick and creamy.
Two weeks in and I was producing maybe a teaspoon, and then finally the glands and ducts switched over and I was able to shoot streams at him; which I did with great delight when he least expected it, or when we were in the shower...
- Adult Breastfeeding Relationship: A Journey - Why I Chose An ANR
ha i thought i was the only one who was getting "milked" as foreplay. I'm not even really lactating yet just a little leakage here and there as I'm almost 6 months and my boyfriend is always squeezing them trying to make them leak ha it drives me nuts but he gets off on it. i suppose the fact that i went from a A/small B to a very full C going on D adds to his obsession with them. no surprise there.
- BabyCenter Community Forum: Guys who like lactation during sex?
I notice that thinking about my husband makes my breasts ache. Some of the initial excitement has worn off and now I feel like I'm settling in. This is what we do now. He's on my breasts at night and in the morning. I have a stretch of 4 days off coming up and he's off for the first two. We'll be together for 2 solid days and can breastfeed every 2 hours together...
- I Love Being Suckled By My Sweet Husband - Inducing lactation: days 1-4
She caught me looking and smiled and said it was ok that I looked. She was way more forward than I was at the time, and was maybe 7-8 years older than me. We pulled up to her apartment and suggested that I help her out by gently squeezing her ample breasts...At that point she began expressing without the pumps, was spraying milk all over the inside of my car, and was clearly getting pleasure out of it. She asked if I would mind suckling her, as it would help relieve the pressure better. I went beet-red in the face, but I didn't hesitate, and took her left nipple into my mouth. After a little coaching on her part, I latched on...and was eagerly chugging down her sweet breast milk.
- How did you discover your lactation kink? : Lactophilia
Then as I exposed her breasts with an enticing jiggle, the soft rays of the setting sun illuminated her moderate pink nipples and my eyes took in their wondrous beauty, their mystery, as they seemed to be begging me to partake. I was smitten by an awakened instinct, a biological imperative, a deep yearning to gaze, fondle, and then to suckle. As if an invisible force from her breasts had lassoed me and was rhythmically nudging me closer, and gazing so closely at the real thing, I surrendered to their needy calling and slowly sucked in her left nipple until it filled my mouth, my tongue rhythmically pressing upward and working from back to front. Then a euphoria came over me that was so overwhelming that it has always summoned me back for more. It was the day that we imprinted.
- MarriageHeat.com: Smitten - Your Breasts, Our Memories
Sharing an adult nursing partnership with the person you love can be a beautiful and healthy part of any relationship, but taking those first steps toward t he opening of such an exquisitely uncommon lifestyle practice isn't always easy. Because the practice of adult nursing is often unfamiliar—and even frightening—to some people, we must first face the challenges and conquer our own fears concerning the physical and emotional dynamics of breastfeeding.
We do this by quelling unfair stigmas and harsh stereotypes, casting aside all that we have been shown through biased and often sensationalized bits of media fodder, and ignoring the unrealistic images we can so easily discover through the magic of the Internet, eventually finding it within ourselves to answer our own questions, confront our personal moral dilemmas, and cast aside our inhibitions to enjoy what we know is right for us. We do all of this privately, sometimes alone, and sometimes with the love and support of our partner, and in doing so, often without realizing it, we have taken those first steps toward the world of adult nursing...
- Love's Sweet Embrace: A Couple's Guide to the Loving Adult Nursing Relationship and the Journey into Breastfeeding Kindle Edition
Recently I've met with someone. And not only have they fulfilled my need to be suckled... but to my surprise it has stimulated me to have triggered orgasms during the nursing... I've read about it being possible. But didn't think it was likely. Initially the seeking was just for nursing, the release of the pressure, and to benefit from the oxytocin release to initiate calming. But the orgasmic response from my body, almost seems beyond my control... it's the most unique experience I could imagine.
- Reddit - Orgasm while nursing
Women choose to induce lactation for many reasons, and each journey is a truly personal one. Sometimes, they do this with the help of a loving and supportive partner, and other times, they do this alone. For Cheryl, the journey of self-inducing began quite by chance, when, after experiencing health issues, and researching alternative medicine, she discovered that stimulation of the breasts could lead to the production of milk...
- My Self-Inducing Journey: Cheryl's Story - Bountiful Fruits
While the thought of producing an abundance of flowing breast milk is an intriguing thought, many couples find that encouraging lactation is a true labor of love, one that takes a great deal of time and dedicated effort. As beautiful as nursing is, it can be difficult to find time for carefully-timed routine suckling sessions. When breast milk is a true desire (or perhaps even a priority) within a committed adult nursing relationship, but a partner is not always avaiilable to provide suckling, women may opt to use alternative methods of encouraging lactation; they do this by self-inducing...
- My Self-Inducing Journey: Julie's Story - Bountiful Fruits
Cozily sitting on our bed, we were holding each others...softly having romantic talks and kissing every now & then in between our talks. Trying feeling every breathe of her, trying reading what those beautiful eyes were telling to me. ...slowly we became more closer, my chest was touching her chest, touching her beautiful-soft-fluffy breasts, I could count her heart-beats then...
- Experience Project: I Love Suckling Milk From a Woman's Beautiful Breasts - Story & Experience
A: Yes. It's entirely possible, and there are actually adoptive mothers who stimulate milk production so they can breastfeed their new babies.
- Reddit - IAmA Woman in an Adult Breastfeeding Relationship AMA : IAmA
I'm in my upper 30s, and this was one of the most intense sensual experience I've ever had. I felt like every single sense was being meticulously cared for in a way they had never all been simultaneously stimulated before. It was insanely incredible...
- Reddit - My first ANR experience this evening. Here's my story.
After a few seconds of suckling, milk started to come out. The milk was very warm and sweet! As I kept suckling, more milk started to come out. I suckled her left breast for about 45 minutes. After I was done with her left breast, I moved onto her right breast and spent about 25 to 30 minutes on that one. I didn't suck out all the milk from the right breast due to being full.
- Reddit - I Tried It!
I wanted to feel close to her, I wanted to be connected and feel better. It's so calming for me but I just felt like it would help. So I gently rubbed her side and asked her if I could nurse while she was sleeping. Of course, she is so amazing and immediately said, "yeah! sure!", felt her breasts to tell which one was most full and let me know, "You'll want to nurse on this one." She rolled over to give me access and allowed me to unlatch her nursing shirt, pull out her breast and begin nursing.
I immediately felt so calm, so loved, and so much better. I nursed until I got a let down and drank her sweet milk until her breast was empty. I felt so much better. I hugged her breast with my face, kissed them, and closed up her nursing shirt. I thanked her and we both rolled over to go to sleep...
- Reddit - I wanted to share a sweet moment with you all that really meant a lot to me last night
A:Hi! Thank you for your comment! I started in October of last year, about 4 months ago. I mostly use my hands but I also have an electric breast pump. When I started, I would massage my nipples for 20 minutes, 6 times per day. As I continued, my nipples became more and more sensitive and pleasurable to the touch, which I didn't expect! ...When I know I'm stimulating the right part of my breasts, I feel small, uterine contractions that are like a mini orgasm. It took one month of daily massage, 6x a day, to start producing drops of milk, and then I started using the breast pumps. I was streaming milk after two months.
- Reddit - I'm single and I induced lactation because it turns me on. I've never been pregnant. I would love to read your comments. <3
My husband and I are in our sixties. I breastfed our children and because of social conditioning it never crossed our minds for him to [enjoy] the gift of my breasts. Five years ago we began enjoying longer periods of foreplay before sex-and because my husband has always enjoyed my breasts … Eventually I began producing milk and boy did his interest sky rocket and my joy of gift giving fulfilled . Because we are retired we have the time to have … sessions 4-6 times per day and when we are busy every 12 hours work just fine. We never saw it as him being a submissive husband, a baby, a child, only a very special time of snuggling and bonding. This special bonding has taken our long marriage to a higher level of intimacy...
- Reviews and testimonials, mostly from female ANR enthusiasts
After wanting to try for months, I finally nursed from my wife. The moment that made me want to is this one day she was extremely engorged and she hurried home to pump. After seeing milk dripping from her erect nipples, I knew I had to try. Admittedly, I came at this from a sexual perspective. There is nothing in the world I find more hot than my wife's milky tits. But... I was not at all prepared for the emotional aspect. After nursing from her, I feel so much more connected to her. My heart literally swells and aches before, during and after. I can't stop thinking about her. I want to touch her all the time. Her skin feels amazing. I cannot get enough of her.
- Reddit: I nursed from my wife and loved it
I started back in August. I hooked up the TENS unit and ran it every two hours while at work. I pumped once a day in the evenings. I also started with Brewers yeast, flaxseed oil, and domperidone. 10mg, 4 times a day for the first week. 20mg the second, 30mg the third. By the end of the third week I was expressing small streams in the shower every morning before work. Maybe a tablespoon per side. I would hand express at lunch and pump at night followed by hand expression. Pumping didn't get anything for me for a few months.
By Christmas, pumping was having a result. I could fill a 6 ounce bag in about 2 days. I started pumping 3 times a day. 4:50 AM, 11:30 AM and 8:30 PM, just because it's what fit in my schedule.
It's now April and last week I tapered back to 20mg Dom, 4 times a day. I'm pumping between 9 and 12 ounces a day. I take Brewers yeast, flaxseed oil, goats rue, and fenugreek twice a day in addition to drinking at least 2 12 ounce bottles of lactation tea every day.
- Reddit: Can we start a go-to post where people who've successfully induced can share their stories?
I had a 90 minute session and she was wonderful and we ended up cuddling and she scratched my back which made the entire session wonderful. I did more sucking and played with her boobs some. She even sprayed milk over me and directly into my mouth...
- Reddit: I finally tried it last night
After my wife’s milk came in, I knew I wanted to taste it, but had no idea yet to what extent. Immediately after the first taste I had a physiological, emotional and purely physical response unlike anything I’d ever experienced. I knew right then I wanted more and more of it. ( kid in a candy store). The desire for it opened me to a very candid honest conversation with my wife about what I wanted. Why I wanted it, how I felt from it, the response my body and brain and heart felt from it. Once she knew this, she was 100% on board with feeding me. Now the relevant part- even though I wanted it soooo bad and knew she wanted it...many times early on I would pull away, avoid it or find an excuse not to take it. I realized I felt guilty for asking for her milk. I saw her feeding the baby all the time, pumping, working so hard to maintain milk and started feeling like either I didn’t deserve it or it was a hardship on her. Even though I craved it and felt withdrawn when I didn’t get it...I still felt unworthy of her milk.
Luckily- my wife and I have been together 20 years and she knows me. She literally pulled out of me what my feelings were. Once I opened up to her about it she said she understood...but that this was soooooo important to her as well. She loves what it does for me and that she can give me that and share that with me. From that point on, she made it a point to come to me. Offer them to me. Pull me in, wake me up, hold them out to me.,,, whatever it took for me to know she is willingly offering it to me. It removed my feelings of guilt. Those days have now passed and she gives and I take...we both love it and want it equally and have dealt with my insecurity. It is now easy, fun and beautiful.
- Reddit: Wanting more...
I suddenly felt weak and enslaved by the beauty and taste of her milk. My sucking got weaker and I fell in to state of bliss. Then she broke me off from her breast and pulled my hand and led me to the cot and helps me lay down. She sat beside, and rubbed her nipple on my lips again. I started sucking again. I could feel her hands patting my head and she kissed my forehead. MY sucking got weaker and her breast slipped out of my mouth and she held me close to her breast. May be in gratitude for relieving her of pain…
- My Adult Nursing Experience - Indian Sex Stories
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